I'm discussing casual, memory-style pictures... not professional photography or contractual ownership. I'm also not necessarily discussing nude pictures, though that's not entirely out of the question.
Which statement do you agree with more?
I am the sole owner of my image, and any picture that contains me should be managed or deleted at my sole discretion regardless of who took them.
Once a picture of me is taken, the picture is theirs to do with as they please, and I have no control over them beyond the permission to take the picture.